We all know people who are tigers in their public lives but pussycats in their private ones.  Nothing wrong with that.  Just know that you may have to maneuver around the roaring feline to get to the purring one (but when you do, he's putty in your hands).  On that front, wearing something sparkly and colorful won't hurt -- like these stealthily sensational earrings of gold shield backs and teal jade rounds.  Me-ow!