Being the mother of a little one -- of either the human or fur variety -- sure can test the patience. So a release valve is a must. It can take any form -- whatever works for you. But you know what usually does the trick? Getting a sitter, putting on some stylish duds, and meeting the girls for a cocktail, for heaven's sake! And when you do, lower your blood pressure even more with these mesmerizing drops of matte gold plate feathers and blue jade studs. Caution: They may raise other people's blood pressure.