You've probably had the experience of saying something you weren't sure of but with confidence and -- voila -- everyone believed you.  Yes, chutzpah counts for a lot.  Not that you want to go around spouting crazy stuff with an air of authority just to test the waters.  But know that when you are sure of something, delivering your message like you mean it will get you far.  Oh, and wearing an insanely gorgeous piece of bling won't hurt your cause, either -- something like this dreamboat of a bracelet made of neutral jasper beads and a copper coin from Cyprus.