For those of you who feel you never get what you want in life, take heed. You must speak up. Hoping good things will come your way is a waste of time. Leaving hints here and there does no good. The only way to get what you want is to ask for it. It’s as true in the office as it is at home. If you want to work on the Tinsley project, say so. If you want that terra cotta cashmere cardigan from Bendel’s, ask for it. All they can say is “no” – and they wouldn’t dare, certainly not when you’re wearing something as enticing as this single strand of orange Lucite and hammered gold plated discs. Makes a wish list downright obsolete, doesn’t it?