There's that often unavoidable dilemma when a friend who's having a significant birthday says no, no, they don't want a party.  Are they just being polite?  Do they really want an all-out shindig of epic proportions?  It helps if you've known the celebrant-in-question a long time.  Otherwise, I say go with something small and tasteful (maybe a few close friends for dinner).  After all, you want your pal to think you shouldn't have but be glad you did.  And as the hostess of said soiree, you probably should keep from stealing the guest of honor's thunder.  But wear whatever makes you look and feel tip-top.  This piece of classically beautiful oxidized chain with a French blue dyed jade pendant radiates an appropriate get-noticed quality but will let your friend shine, too.

Length: 38 1/2" with a 1 1/2" drop