So you got a little work done.  So what?  Don't deny it, but don't soft-peddle it, either.  You did it.  You look terrific.  And I bet the person who wants to know about it doesn't look nearly as good.  So there.  Another act of self-care (that's what it is, you know) is dressing like you give a hoot what you look like  Don this beauty of orange jade, light and deep teal jade, and a vintage Latvian coin and there'll be no question -- at least about that.